We lost songwriter Chuck McCabe a year ago. I’m still amazed (well, not really) when I meet someone and discover that our musical three degrees of separation goes right back to Chuck. (Chuck meant a lot to a lot of people. He still does.) I was in the camp of new-ish songwriters who only knew Chuck the last few years he was with us. Chuck was a hell of a songwriter. He loved the craft, and he enjoyed taking people under his wing to discuss it and share what he’d learned. He could also pull a great joke out of the ether.

cd_chicken_dinnersI recently went through my old “/chuck” email folder and was surprised (well, not really) at how many exchanges he and I had about music, writing, and recording. He taught me a lot. I’m still learning.

Not a whole lot of folks have gone through this [recording] process. It’s a strange addiction, and I confess to having the disease. Maybe we need a support group: ‘Hello, my name’s Chuck, and I’m a recordaholic.'”

grav“There will always be one audible thing on your finished CD that makes you visibly cringe whenever you hear it…and no one else will ever even know it’s there.”

“One horrifying thought I’ve had lately is that I’d have a few bucks in the bank if not for the five CDs that have brought me neither fortune nor fame. Still, the road keeps opening up in front of me, and I’ve made my choices… now to make the best of them. I probably won’t end up poor in the gutter. Most likely in a cheap hotel, maybe…probably in Redding.”


“I can almost guarantee your efforts will take you somewhere unexpected, so get out there and promote yourself till they all puke (maybe you, too). We’re not going away. I suspect we’re both already working on our next plot for world-domination right now, am I wrong?”

“Although we ultimately have to please ourselves (I write for me) I find it nearly impossible to lose the awareness that people are going to listen to this stuff, and consciously or otherwise, keep asking myself what I have that they would like to hear. I think this is an assessment of one’s strengths, not a pandering to others’ taste. Some songs, you have to write regardless of what anybody thinks, but many I think, are written to entertain, and rope ’em in if you will. I think you are doing this too, whether you know it or not. You wouldn’t pass along a joke unless you thought people were going to laugh, eh?”

“A cowpoke rides up to the saloon, gets off his horse and goes around behind… lifts up the tail, and plants a big ol’ kiss on the horse’s ass. An old timer sittin’ on the porch falls out of his chair and says: ‘I’ve been on the range 40 years and I ain’t never seen THAT before!… what in hell?’ ‘Well, Pops… I’ve got chapped lips,’ the cowboy replies. ‘And that cures ’em?’ ‘Naw, but it sure keeps me from lickin’ ’em.'”

To learn more about Chuck, visit his web site. It became a living memorial as of July 23rd last year. People from all over the world posted comments, thoughts, and remembrances. If you’d like to hear Chuck talk about his “Creatures of Habit” record, his fondness for Redding, or the joy he got in playing in rest homes for Young at Heart, check out episodes #37, #38, and #67 of the “Songs and Stories” podcast.

Of course, the best thing you can do is go to Chuck’s music page to pick up the wonderful legacy he left us on his five CDs.

5 Replies to “Remembering Chuck McCabe”

  1. Well done, Mr. Gaither!

    I have no doubt Chuck is smiling right now, tunin’ his guitar and regaling those around with yet another little story.

    Man, sure do miss that guy…

  2. ‘Charlie good friends are for remembering and the times we had.we started in 1974 and we’re going strong right up to the end. God bless you chuck.

  3. Thanks Michael. I just finished reading Leroy Cheney’s book “McCabe and Me”. Great stuff. Although I had known and crossed paths in a million ways with Chuck for over 30 years, I learned alot about him. He was very private, but shared his heart through his songs, could make you laugh, make you cry, and make you ponder life. What else can you ask. What a gentleman!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *